[Nyororin]

I`m not meaning to say nasty things.

What I am trying to do, however, is to put things in perspective. Not everyone on here is married, and not everyone on here has children. In fact, I would say the majority of people on this board are teenagers, not even close to having children.

Why am I bothering? Because I am married, and I do have children, and I am currently fighting for adoption rights for a child in Japan because I can`t have any more. I have invited 5 people in the last 30 minutes out of my friends (raising children in Japan) who would like to have a place to discuss such things - as this category is intended for - who are wane to even join JF because "everyone is a kid" and "we don`t want a bunch of kids filling our topics with fantasy about Japanese babies", etc.

Which is what this topic is. Fantasy. I thought this category was meant to be about REAL parenting in Japan. If it`s roleplaying as a parent of a cute little Japanese girl, shouldn`t it be in that topic?