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"など" is usually translated as "and so on". But "など" involves another feeling to look down (to regard as lower position) the listener.

Suppose you want to marry with a girl and ask her father for permission (it is still very usual in Japan), her father might say "お前に娘などやれん: I do not approve the marriage!". In this case the father could say "お前などに娘はやれん". He means you are not enough compared with his daughter.

Or he could say "お前に娘をやるなど考えられん:I can not accept the thought to approve the marriage!".

Does it make sense ? I could have more better explanation to the point. Please ask again.