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wow Nyororin you're my hero 
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Thank you for the kind words.
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You cleared a lot of things for me, now i know
that i could only stay for 3 months (im from Usa)
I would love to live there but it sounds difficult
now , but its worth a try.
How could i find a place to stay at, or a family that
would allow me to stay with them?
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I was lucky, my friend introduced me to her mother and I stayed with her family. I really don`t have any good suggestions about finding a family willing to let you stay. I guess that comes down to luck and connections. If you have any Japanese friends, drop the hint that you`re interested in going to Japan, but don`t know where you`d stay, etc. Maybe ask if they knew anyone who might let you stay for a few weeks, etc.
If you don`t have any Japanese friends/connections in Japan then it is going to be a lot harder, so I can`t really offer any advice in that area.
As for rent, etc, if you live alone... you`d be better off going through a program if you`re young.
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How much is 30,000 yen in American money?
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Try typing "30,000 yen in dollars" in Google.
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Another question arent Japanese Family very strict
about Japanese marrying a Foreigner? I would love
to marry a Japanese guy 
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If you want to marry a Japanese guy *because* he`s Japanese, then I`d suggest you do some more thinking. I didn`t marry my husband because he`s Japanese. I married him because I fell in love with him - and he just happened to be Japanese. I am quite strongly against marrying because of some specific trait (be it race, nationality, etc). Marry for love, not because it would be cool to be married to someone Japanese.
As for a family being strict - I think that really all does depend on the family. I think families are often more cautious than anything. It seems more international marriages end in disaster than not. (Largely because it`s pretty common to marry because it`s "international" and not for true love.) It`s only natural that a family would want their child to avoid that sort of problem later on.
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if you dont mind i would like to talk to you more ,
you could help me out a lot .
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Feel free to ask away.