[Kanji_The_Wanderer]

*sigh* Listen, it is very possible to have a debate/discussion without insults. Refrain from calling people "jerks" and such other words. If you don't like something someone says don't jump right to getting upset, step back and analyze what was written, then respond in a mature manner. I don't like it when people insult other people. Especially online, it serves no purpose and just gets you in trouble.

So KawaiiNeko, I am not trying to take sides (as a moderator I am not one to do so) I just respond and give my opinion. Nyororin and Jasonbvr live in Japan, and they are adults. so they know better then most people, and have had more time there then younger people. They have experienced what you are saying, and thus know how to talk about it.