I think it will not work.Just think why are you love your lover .I know there is a lot of reasons but just an e,g if she / he didn't understand your cultul or your language how do you go on your relationship.
I have a friend (we met in Japan Forum),her husband is in Japan,but she is an singpore but she moved to Japan following her husband.That it is!If you really love a people you should do something but it's better in different places.