[Xuande]

I think we're about in the same situation. Right now I'm really trying to learn the whole language through self study. I'm not sure if there are any online sites that could teach you to speak it fluently though. I'm using the Genki 1 textbook right now which is what I believe some colleges use to teach japanese. You're supposed to use with the cd and workbook with it that are sold seperately, unfortunately, and so far I think its the best thing I've come across for self study and I'm just using the book right now.