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I second MMM's post. I've worked contract before and employer paying for transportation is standard. And I'm waaay down the totem pole from IT.

Also, you definitely need to move if that job of yours is going to continue. I do 2hrs of train commute time a day plus 1/2 hr walking each way for a total of 3 hrs, and even that is enough to make me want to punch the occasional newspaper-flitting ossan right in the gullet. FIVE hours?! That's nuts. I used to live in Katayama-cho, 15 mins. to Sannomiya, principal station that will take you straight to Rokko Island. Our place was pretty spacious and in the 7-8man a month neighborhood. I strongly recommend looking for some other options, friend!