i've never had a problem with you and i don't think you're too mean... in fact you might argue agresively but that doesn't make you mean... just like me, if you say something against what i truely believe in, i'll kick your ass verbally, but that doesn't make me mean!!!
ignore the people that think you're mean, those people always want someone to agree with them instead of argue, i can actually name a few people like that on this site that bug the hell out of me cos they say the stupidest shit just so they fit in with everyone else