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Originally Posted by jasonbvr
I know what I said is unfairly slamming on the girls working these places when it should be directed at the business itself. My opinion of hostesses stems from how I perceive Japan's sex industry in general, a bunch of sleaze. I don't exactly feel that these sorts of businesses are improving Japan's sexual health and women's status in society. I can understand the driving force behind it, a history of geishas who were in my opinion very talented (as in like musically and socially gifted) prostitutes and like samokan points out easy money. But I still find the practice in general and the businesses associated with them such as massage parlors and soap lands to be degrading to women.
Most foreigners working as hostesses are from the Phillipines, Eastern Europe, China and other Asian countries. And not that the hostess industry is to blame for it, but Japan does have a problem with human trafficking. Some girls come over and their passports are taken from them. Then they become virtual prisoners in black market brothels. Some are beaten and psychologically abused. Told that they will be in big trouble if the government finds out they are in the country illegally.
To me, the hostess industry is the most visible part of what I see as Japan's sex industry. This is basically the cause of my negative views of hostesses.
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The hostess industry is so wide-reaching and spread out, I think both of you are being a little unfair.
What you are talking about certainly happens, but I do not associate a snack bar with any part of the sex industry in Japan. I don't want to go into my own personal business, but let me say I have a pretty good understanding and experience of how snacks work and the different kinds of shops, and the majority are very small operations where the women never even come from behind the counter. You are paying for companionship, yes...but not sexual companionship. All of the mamas I know would be pissed if a girl slept with a customer. It's against the rules. Once she sleeps with the guy, what's the mysterious allure?
I agree with your thoughts about the sex industry, but hostesses aren't whores.