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Originally Posted by samokan
im not saying that all hostess are whores as i said ive met some girls who work honestly in the business but majority are. Ive meet a lot of girls work honestly as part-time hostesses cause they need "fast cash" without pouring coffee in the office, or cleaning toilets.. but some are just in for the money they can extort
unless I know the real reason why they enter that kind of job, I don't have much respect for them. I don't judge, its their lives and their business but its only my right not to respect them till I got to know them
Im actually glad that Japan close the entertainment ( clubs, etc) business who recruit girls from my country ( Philippines ) but unfortunately I think it did more damage than good. There are already some who resort to marriage-for-convenience just to be able to get a spousal visa here and be able to work and not just from my country but others as well.
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Samokan, I will be very careful about how I phrase the next few sentences.
One of my best drinking buddies in Osaka was from the Phillipines. He would take me to Phillipine hostess clubs all the time (he seemed to have "relatives" at each one, and somehow we always got a discount, so I never complained). These were loud, obnoxious, and really fun places. But I did sense that the girls there were desperately looking to find a husband quick.
I didn't "sense" it...I knew it. Becaue they told me.
Please don't take offense if I say that foreign hostesses and Japanese hostesses are two different entities.
You say the majority of hostesses in Japan are whores. I am saying that is simply not true.
A whore is a woman who is payed for sex. Hostesses are not paid for sex. Hostesses are conversationalists, bartenders, and companions all-in-one. Ask a hostess for a date, and she'll tell you "Come back to my bar next time I work, and I'll think about it." That's not a whore.
I don't know why so many Filipino women work as hostesses in Japan. Are they recruited? I don't know. But there is a difference between a Filipino hostess bar and a Japanese snack. I can't speak about the Filipino girls you are talking about, but in my experience, they weren't whores, either. They were looking for husbands, yes...but not accepting money for sex.