I use Gatsby moving rubber. I like the pink or the green box the best.
![](http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r207/oxlilangelqtxo/2008%20pics/gatsbyhair.jpg)
When u use it sparingly it doesnt get your hair sticky but holds well. If it does get sticky, Iuse Gatsby softening water.(its a spray bottle) here's a commercial for Gatsby
YouTube - asian mullet hairstyle #4
I hope it helps