[kurezi]

I feel like the only accurate response you can possibly receive is from an actual Japanese female who has been brought up in Japan and has experienced it fully. Also, it would probably help to have your questions answered from a Japanese male as well. Foreigners can only empathize and make an educated guess. We don't know what it's actually like to be in their shoes and even if we manage to taste a bit of the Japanese lifestyle, we would be judging it through a foreign perspective, comparing it to our own standards and code of ethics.