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Originally Posted by steve88
I've 3 children, 2 boys and one girl. Their age are, girl 19, boys 15 and 11 years. They don't like each others. They always fight among each on TV channels, computer, car seat arrangement, etc. I've tried my best to harmonies but failed. I admire those family whose children are well behave and closed to each and respect their parent. We failed miserably as parent but that is not what we want. Has anyone got this problem? Could anyone help me how to tackle this issue. Thank you  |
It's natural, I used to fight with my brother all the time. I have a suggestion however it could get out of hand.
Leave the house, tell them that they are to take care of the house. An argument can and most likely will start. Just let them argue to their heart's content and eventually they will stop and realise they love each other and will stop fighting.
This worked for my brother and I, my parents didn't do this but while they were out he and I got into a really heated argument and it ended up in a physical fight. I hit him so hard that I kind of felt sorry for him and started wondering why we even do this shit to each other. We haven't had a fight since. Sometimes you need to get these things out.
However this will get out of hand and probably won't work if your children don't have a sense of empathy.