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Originally Posted by SSJup81
but now-a-days, women are either waiting until they've established a career, or just not having them because they feel they wouldn't make good mothers. There are some women who shouldn't have children, but they have them anyway. If you already know and realize that you're not into the whole parenting thing, then you shouldn't have children.
There are some women who just don't want to biologically go through physically having a child. I'm personally one of them. I'd rather adopt a child, or two, in need, than to have one of my own.
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I totally agree with this and i didn't say otherwise!... Its perfectly ok for a woman to establish a career then have a child...
Its not ok for a woman to have a child if she knows she'll do a bad job.
And also, adopting is another great choice and i admire all families that do it! If you really don't wanna go through the pain, but want to help a child, this is great.