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Originally Posted by SSJup81
I think what kunitokotachi was saying is that we need both parents to raise children, and it should be irrelevant if a woman is better with children or not. Some men turn out to be better than women in this regard. It shouldn't always be "up to the mother" and women should be allowed to make the choice of whether or not she wants to pursue a career, or be stuck raising a family. In all honesty, it's not fair that women are faced with such choices and men aren't. Men should have to face the same responsibilities that a mother has to where child raising is concerned. Not all women are cut out to be the type to stay at home and raise children.
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No I agree with you. Also though, you are given the cards you are given. If you are a woman, you are MADE to have kids. You are MADE to have mood swings and cramps and menopausal problems and so on. Its something you deal with whether you want babies or not.
You can say it isn't fair that women are given such choices, (when men aren't) till you're red in the face and i'll agree, it definitely isn't. I mean hell, i've taken the heat because of my mothers menopause and ex-girlfriend/girlfriend pms issues so I wish just as much that these things didnt exist!
But they do.
This is why these "unfair" choices are a part of life.