maybe really well decorated cupcakes!
i like to make cupcakes with the instant "whit cake" mix from the "Bulk Barn" (do you have Bulk Barn where you live?) anyway its super tasty and you only need water to make it so its foolproof. Just add a little red food coloring and you can have bright pink cute cupcakes or add purple for purply ones! whatever suits your color scheme for the party
You could also serve those tiny tea-time cakes that are exquisitely iced. yknow? all ala Alice in Wonderland. Maybe write "eat me" on some.
tres cute.
Im a nerd I really love little cakes and cupcakes. I make them for my husband and pretty much for every party we go to. I dont like to eat them really but i love making and decorating them.
Its fun to make cupcakes and then put whatever candy in the icing, people like those. Like little gummy hearts for valentines, or candy corn, or whatever.
I found some cupcakey inspiration for you also, some decorating ideas:
Im in research-mode so ill see what else i can find on traditional Loli' tea parties.