AARRRGGGHHH!!!!
Gackt, there is no one on this forum qualified to judge you. This is something only you and your husband can do!. The two of you do have a large age gap, and that does bring a few complications You must look into your hearts and determine what is there. If the two of you are truly in love with each other, then it will be alright. True love is a thing hard to find in this world, very hard. If it is something you have, then every else can just go to HELL!. Enjoy what time you may have together.