What kind of stores are near you? If you can find a specialty store, you should check out what they have. F+F is a definite recommendation (as mentioned before).
Lolita Kisama is another online site you can check out. I saw some of their stuff at a convention and it's pretty decent though the selection might not be the best.
If you know someone that can sew, maybe they can help make you stuff
I try to make my stuff when I can.