[chachava]

oh, and something I DIDN'T admit last time was that I know how scary getting tested can be... after I split with my first girlfriend out here, I hooked up with another girl who, it turned out, had chlamydia. Luckily I have always believed in protection so was pretty relieved when my tests came back 100% negative.

Even so, it still scared me to the point that I asked my next (and current) girlfriend to have a full std test before we had sex for the first time. She was fine with it and completely clean.. if she had not agreed to that, we would've been over pretty quickly lol

Anyway, my point is this: BE SAFE AND DON'T TAKE STUPID RISKS. The Japanese people I have spoken to about it seem to pretty naive when it comes to the topic of STD's