hi Nyororin,
thank you very much for the detailed information!
about the eggs and tomatoes thrown on me!
i did hear from a close friend's bf (he's studying in Japan) saying that some Japanese will come toward you & take away your phone if they hear you talking chinese in public phones. scary, scary! :d but i do believe, most of Japanese are very friendly & sincere!
looks like the only option for my hubby is to teach English according to you.
i will tell him and see what he thinks. he's not against it. I think he'd love to take a couple of year break & live some lazy life with studying something new. i don't have to work if i can't, i can only focus on taking care of my baby girl.
schools and housing are not too bad. thanks for telling everything. i can see you are such an expert, will contact you again if i want to know something more.
cheers!
take care!