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Originally Posted by Diryavi
Hey, some people are big boned and can't help being fat or chubby and not all fat people eat at Mac D's did you know way back then big was beautiful and it represent wealth. Skinny meant you were poor. Just look at Ruben's paintings look how big the girls were, I use to be overweight and it was tough because guys were so shallow and I would like to find a guy who's not and will not care how much you weigh! I lost 40+ pounds I still need to work on my body to be more fit but it was tough for me when I was growing up being teased because of my weight wishing that I could be perfect like those people in the magazines.
Just because your skinny dose not make you healthy, why is it OK for a guy to be fat or chubby, but not for a girl?, And how come guys view fat or chubby girls ugly? some of them are fit but are fat or chubby. I Hate to say it but I think men in the media likes little boys, so We have to make our selves into boys. Well you know what?! We Girls have hips and curves and we are not little boys! We are girls and the world should change the views of the media, and girls around us that it is OK to look like a Woman with all of the features that it brings, we are not Boys! I hope we can change the views before it is too late before they throw up before they kill them selves or have low self esteem like I did. It's sad but true I still think boys only like skinny girls. Also people tie in that skinny=pretty and fat=ugly and thats what was drilled into our heads at an early age when we see those models and those movie and TV stars grace are eyes with those so called perfect bodies . So Thats what I think if any one else like to hear my views You can PM any time...
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I definitely agree with what you're saying. The thing is, if you really think about it, organic food is a WHOLE lot expensive then unhealthy food. I should know, my mom's buying organic food all the time now. Now, I'm not trying to go ahead and say that there's no way to help yourself if you're obese or to excuse anyone, but I just think that people, go around saying,"If you're fat, just go lose weight" sometimes it's deeper than that.
Now, I have a very fast metabolism, it would take me a while to gain weight compared to the "average" person. That's what I've inherited, some people get bigboned and therefore, are just built that way and considered fat. There's a lot to consider, and just saying that it's all their fault would be a false accusation.
Just to add, I think that being "skinny" and "pretty" can have its negatives, because when you are viewed this way it's very hard to find someone who is genuine or friends that love them for who they are, as you can see by some of the ignorant posts by someone, saying he wanted a skinny girl even if she was bulemic. However, the girls who are able to exhibit their unique qualities, despite how they are looked down upon by the ignorance of the media, those girls are able to find genuine love or acceptance easier because those that do accept them, accept them because of something that goes deeper than just a pretty face
