07-06-2008, 03:58 PM
I think the greater issue is his wife's self-esteem issue. I agree she is doing whatever she can to "keep" him above "please" him. and the OP's concerns are legit. That's why I ask how long he knew her before marrying her.
It doesn't sound like watching porn together is a good idea, as she thinks she need to look like an porn idol to keep him interested.
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