[superbike81]

We've been together for a year now, we are truly in love, so I don't see why that is coming into question. Some might say a year is too quick to get married, but I've been with a girl for 3 years before, and still wasn't sure I wanted to marry her. This is the real thing, we love each other very much

Now bringing up the self esteem issues is valid, but if she is doing things to improve her self-image, I don't see the problem. Could you explain this better please? Why is this an indicator for future problems?

Thanks for the responses everyone!