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Originally Posted by superbike81
We've been together for a year now, we are truly in love, so I don't see why that is coming into question. Some might say a year is too quick to get married, but I've been with a girl for 3 years before, and still wasn't sure I wanted to marry her. This is the real thing, we love each other very much
Now bringing up the self esteem issues is valid, but if she is doing things to improve her self-image, I don't see the problem. Could you explain this better please? Why is this an indicator for future problems?
Thanks for the responses everyone!
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She isn't trying to improve her self-image. She is trying to fit into the image of the girl she thinks you want.
What you need to do is 1) stop with the pornos because obviously it intimidates her and 2) convince her you love her for her, not for what she could be.