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Originally Posted by Koir
It's only natural to feel bad about not being friends with someone. What would help a person to get past that is knowing that it's neither person's fault really, things sometimes just don't happen.
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Yeah, you are right.
Right now, I have someone I really want to break up with.
It's not about a boyfriend, but a "customer".
She is a person doesn't understand how other people would feel,
she doesn't share with others, but try to get everything for her or only for her family.
I didn't know she was that bad.
Some people told me how unpleasant person she is for a friend, but
I wanted to believe "I" could change her...but I was totally wrong. She did this ugry attitude toward me too.
"Don't share, but getting everthing for herself" thing.
She is over 30. Her mind is settled.
It's so ugry to see people who acting greedy.
Everyone is talking bad things behind her back.
But the "bad things" aren't rumors but the true stories.
No one is gonna tell her that she should change otherwise she will loose something very important in the end.
Should I tell her?
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Now or in the future, if it is meant to happen it will happen.
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Yes, you are right.
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*hides smile behind hand* Well, it's not the first thing that you would think of...not entirely---
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Well, seriously I didn't have "the first thing" to think of, really.
but now I have hahaha.
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Oh, that looks like a very nice place. Hiking, breathtaking views...beautiful!
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Isn't it?
I'm going there on Tuesday and Wednesday.
On Thursday, I'm going to Tokyo.
I will spend over 10days there.
It's my summer break!
I want to forget everything about that customer who's been making me sick.
Koir, can you tell me about your relationship with people who you have chance to be with sometime?
Would you be honest with that person to tell her/him when she/he did something wrong? (especially when no one is going to tell them that)
Maybe it depends doesn't it?
I have been a person who always wanted to be honest and tell the truth.
Some appreciated, cos they actually knew they did something bad and others weren't happy about it, but cos no one told them so they had no chance to change it before.
But some didn't admit it, and just did something back at me.Making up some bad stories about me, and trying to tell others to make them believe I was the bad one... usually it didn't work though, I still felt awful.
Some told me that when people reached the certain age like over 25 or 30,
their mindset is just settled and hard to change.
So I'd better understand the fact and change MY idea and stop tell them the truth and try to change.......
Can you give me your advice?