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Originally Posted by Kanji_The_Wanderer
If you have a problem with someone, the place to have a heart-to-heart debate is not inside the thread. If you have a problem with someone, take it up in the PM's. Us in the forum don't want to read your problems, in a PM it's private and you can say whatever you please without being penalized or whatnot.
(I don't mean you personally, I mean all users)
And I think you are being a bit too extreme about the whole ban thing, I give user's waaay more chances then they actual deserve. There are loads of users on JF who aren't exactly nice, but they are still here aren't they?
I only ban spammers and trollers instantly. I'd like to be given an example of who you are referring too.
A section to flame each other? That seems a bit childish don't you think? I find it hard to believe that people let themselves get so worked up to begin with, I mean, this is just a bunch of words or a screen, don't know why people let themselves get worked up over a couple of words which have no meaning on their own. People let themselves get offended.
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Seeing as though I posted this awhile back.
I actually do agree with how you ban.
But now I'm starting to think you need to ban more or at least talk to these members who are turning all the serious threads into crap.
Don't threat because assholes embrace threats.
Just talk.
" Hey man there are more people on this forum then you and ruining their threads just isn't cool. I understand that you blah blah"
<< Well way better wording but you get the point.
From the conversations I've had you with, you have a talent with understanding so put it to good use.
Unless you already do and they still flaunt around being dicks. :/
As for the section I suggested.
You'd be surprised how well it keeps the rest of the forum mature.
A play pin for all the brats to play in.