[zoneoni]

Oh, in that case.

Give it time, I know it sounds so ghey and lame and stupid. But just keep yourself available, do stuff with your buddies. Go to the library or a Hospital or your church. Be active and see how cold the water is. Someone will catch your eye. If your still attracted to your X. Then wait a little while. Don't go out with someone while thinking about her, it's not nice.