09-10-2008, 11:45 AM
I was in your position until this last year, my friend.
The girls that I used to know in my school and so, are not worth it. They are not my type and so on, and thus I couldn't talk to with girls and I had a low confidence. However, here's some advice.
Look yourself in your mirror, closely. What can you see? Is there anything you could change? Change it. Change everything you want to say. Then next to that, wait until you've left school, or grown up enough to go to bars/pubs. THAT'S the place to start and talk to girls.
Act confident, always smile and when you're talking to one girl, give her your attention, however don't cling to her. Give her the feeling that you've taken an interest in her, but you could easily walk away and find another girl.
There are ofcourse many other ways to pick up girls, but that is my way. I walk up to them, lower their defenses with a light joke, then I smile and slowly charm my way into their heart/mind/pant/wherever.
Once you do it the first few times, it becomes second nature.
First step though: Change what you want to change my friend.
- “I've been lucky. I'll be lucky again.” -
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