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09-16-2008, 10:33 AM
it takes a while to get over people....
usually it takes a fresh peice of meat for every year your going out....
and a BARE minimum of a fresh piece of meat for every 2 years before you stop comparing physically....
e.g. bob dates rose for 4 years...
they break up...
the next girl bob sleeps with...he is comparing with rose
the 2nd girl again he is comparing to rose...but also to the first girl...so not as much
by the third girl bob has stopped automatically comparing them to rose...
but he is STILL thinking about her...
still on the 4th girl...he has rose on his mind...but its only a distant memory...
only at girl number 5... is bob ready for anything involving commitment...cos anything before then...IS just a rebound
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