[EveV]

If someones wants to be a selfish like that.
Let them.

There's so little you can do to these people to make them sway away from those sort of feelings.

It's all on them.
It's nobody's loss but theirs.

You may not choose your own path at times but you sure as hell have the choice of accepting it or not.
Life is presented and judged in the eyes of the beholder.
If you someone is to blind to see what they have, then they have nothing.
Nothing at all.