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Originally Posted by ivi0nk3y
Well I used to be the same. More because I was depressed and couldn't care less about making new friends etc. I was fine with what I had.
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Wow, totally different situation with me. I was never depressed or depressive. I was just used of being by myself because I grew up that way.
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As for approaching people I may have an interest in, I don't. I've never asked someone out because I thought they were good looking or something. Just don't have the drive to do that cos I know at the end of the day, I don't know them and it puts me off.
I tend to have relationships with people i've known for years.
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I wasn't really referring to dating. This is just me in a general sense, and, ironically, I've always gotten along way better with guys than I have with girls. I could probably count on two or three fingers, how many "girlfriends" I've had in my life time. I like hanging around guys way more. Even online, seems that the majority of my AIM buddy list consists of guys. It didn't hit me until recently. The people I talk to on a semi-reg basis online (or when I actually run that thing) are guys.
As for approaching said guys, I know of them or knew of them or had already associated with them and just want to become friends with the guy or get his attention and be friends. If it goes past that, which it usually doesn't in my case, since I feel I'm a bit too tomboyish for it, then oh well, but I honestly haven't hung around many guys where I actually wanted to date them. As a matter of fact, a couple of weeks ago, I was invited to go bowling with a couple of friends. I'd consider them friends, even if we don't get to hang much. My friend invited her friend along and some of her coworkers. I was instantly drawn to him and his personality, and spent the majority of my time trying to talk and get along with him. I had a blast. I technically approached him. I'm not romantically interested in him, but his goofy personality and sense of humor was spot on.
It doesn't bother me not having a lot of friends to hang out with, just as long as I have somebody, because sometimes, I do get in my moods where I just don't feel like being bothered and staying in for the night. Coincidentally, this night is one of them. lol