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Originally Posted by SSJup81
Wow, totally different situation with me. I was never depressed or depressive.
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Lol I was pretty unhappy cos of a few reasons. I had to get over those reasons to carry on with my life.
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Originally Posted by SSJup81
I was just used of being by myself because I grew up that way.I wasn't really referring to dating. This is just me in a general sense, and, ironically, I've always gotten along way better with guys than I have with girls. I could probably count on two or three fingers, how many "girlfriends" I've had in my life time. I like hanging around guys way more. Even online, seems that the majority of my AIM buddy list consists of guys. It didn't hit me until recently. The people I talk to on a semi-reg basis online (or when I actually run that thing) are guys.
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Actually its funny, i'd say 80% of people on my msn list are female.. not cos I actively only talk to females but I just make friends easier with females.
I get on with both genders pretty well on and offline.
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As for approaching said guys, I know of them or knew of them or had already associated with them and just want to become friends with the guy or get his attention and be friends. If it goes past that, which it usually doesn't in my case, since I feel I'm a bit too tomboyish for it, then oh well, but I honestly haven't hung around many guys where I actually wanted to date them. As a matter of fact, a couple of weeks ago, I was invited to go bowling with a couple of friends. I'd consider them friends, even if we don't get to hang much. My friend invited her friend along and some of her coworkers. I was instantly drawn to him and his personality, and spent the majority of my time trying to talk and get along with him. I had a blast. I technically approached him. I'm not romantically interested in him, but his goofy personality and sense of humor was spot on.
It doesn't bother me not having a lot of friends to hang out with, just as long as I have somebody, because sometimes, I do get in my moods where I just don't feel like being bothered and staying in for the night. Coincidentally, this night is one of them. lol
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Do you feel like you're happy with your life then, all that being said?
What would you change.