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Originally Posted by SSJup81
I don't actively just talk to guys either, it just seems to always turn out that way.I'm content with my life socially. The only thing I wish I would've done was stayed in school when younger. Maybe I'd have a decent job now or at least one with benefits...then again, money was the reason I didn't, then again, maybe if I had stayed, I'd have made enough so that I could move out of my parents' home. To me it's an embarassment to be turining 27 and still stuck at home because I can't find a decent job or can't find one where I made enough money so that I could be out on my own. I will admit that I am stubborn, and am definitely better off living by myself. It's just not affordable in this day and age to get an apartment by yourself making barely $20k, $21k a year that's not in a decent neighborhood or something. ^^
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Well you definitely need to take more initiative it seems, from what you've told me. I dunno, not trying to be mean but you do seem quite passive.
Perhaps you should do some sort of diploma or course that can get you into a job and onto the ladder. Do you think that would help ? What if you and a friend or two share an apartment?
If not that then just move. I'm sure you'll be able to find a job in that huge country of yours
I personally don't mind taking my time with a job cos I just don't wanna be tied down in that way at all. I wanna learn all I can and do as much as I can and not be dependant on anything.
Even though I can have a full time job, I actively don't want one. Always part time with good money and hours I can choose. That's why i'm a freelancer.