What I notice is that the people who usually tend to be real cam-whores and act out like they are really interesting and funny people on the net, are the opposite in real life. Have some experience of talking to these types of people and then meet up with them in real life, which usually ends up of me walking home wondering if that person really was the same one I talked to on the net?
People who are into special styles like emo, goth or like these days the popular Jrock/visual kei style, seem to compensate the looks with their boring personality. So don't try to be something you are not and stop the acting on the net, because you are only going to get a broken heart in the end or find out that people do not really care about your looks that much, but who you are as a person
