[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by TalnSG

Reading this was mildly amusing. Yes, there is still an eyebrow raised and a smirk on my face.

So far it seems that everyone has left off one quality that is an absolute necessity, especially in light of the postings so far. Whomever you venture into a relationship with is going to need a lot of PATIENCE and considerable mercy to endure you. And its true for myself as well, so you can disarm.

As for my top 10 in a lover (gender is rather superfulous):

1 - Rational thought
2 - Imagination/Creativity
3 - Sense of humor
4 - Patience/Compassion
5 - A (restrained) sense of adventure
6 - Sense of self worth (without be arrogant!)
7 - Sense of responsibility for their own actions
8 - Trust
9 - An enjoyment of life
10 - Good hands (no I won't go into details here)

Yes, the physical aspects come at the bottom of the list - and the list definitely continues.

Someone said women judge a book by its cover and I will not disagree. But its not the sole basis for our judgement. Just like a book, if the cover is pristine, never been opened and the title doesn't catch my attention, I assume its been ignored because it has nothing to offer or is boring in its approach. Same for people. If the face has no character and the physique looks as though its never met a challenge, I figure there is reason. And until I see something more being offered, I am not interested.

To be honest, it depends on what you're expecting from this GF.

If you're expecting to marry, then fair enough. If not, I can live with minor things that would cause problems in marriages.