Quote:
Originally Posted by xYinniex
-dress well
-Be confident
-Flatter her
-Be a gentleman
-Be yourself
-Don't just sit there and not say anything.
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^This as well.
Thinking more on it though, I realized that a lot of guys that have these sort of problems think
way too much about getting with women to the point where they forget the point. While there's not a single woman out there that doesn't wish she wasn't swept off her feet at any given moment, there are plenty out there who will start making preconceived judgements about you if they can tell (and they will) that you're trying to get with them.
The hottest woman at a bar knows what she's got, and she's flaunting it so much that every guy in the place wants her; she knows all that, so any guy that makes an obvious attempt at it will, more than likely, get shot down (unless this guy is the first coming of God as far as looks are concerned). The solution to this is many; my own personal one is to not give a damn that she's the finest thing to grace the area I'm currently in. Girls are clinically insane enough to go crazy with curiosity as to why a guy isn't drooling over her when every one else is. Of course, the fine line you walk is that she may think your gay.
Show interest, but not too much, and don't overthink it.
Meh.