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theAlphaDuck (Offline)
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10-13-2008, 08:14 PM

some say...a good friend can be a great lover

i disagree

some say...a good lover can be a great friend

I agree

a good friend is something that is high up in social standing
a fuck-buddy is something that is lower than a friend

thus if you turn a good friend into a sex-flex...well that not going to end well...
your friends for a reason....
....if you sleep with a friend...someone is having feelings...thus

1. someone is getting hurt as that person wont be able to maintain sex-flex status and is secretly hoping for more

2. you start a relationship....and then more often than not...it goes sour...because the dynamic that worked so well as friends...is gone...forever

so basically....its a no go area...

if you must...

1. both get drunk
2. have tottally wild and crazy nite of sex
3. pretend you cant remember/it didnt happen
4. carry on as friends...but secretly enjoying the memory or sharing subtle jokes about it

this can at most be repeated about once a year...

not immature...good question

peace
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