10-13-2008, 08:14 PM
some say...a good friend can be a great lover
i disagree
some say...a good lover can be a great friend
I agree
a good friend is something that is high up in social standing
a fuck-buddy is something that is lower than a friend
thus if you turn a good friend into a sex-flex...well that not going to end well...
your friends for a reason....
....if you sleep with a friend...someone is having feelings...thus
1. someone is getting hurt as that person wont be able to maintain sex-flex status and is secretly hoping for more
2. you start a relationship....and then more often than not...it goes sour...because the dynamic that worked so well as friends...is gone...forever
so basically....its a no go area...
if you must...
1. both get drunk
2. have tottally wild and crazy nite of sex
3. pretend you cant remember/it didnt happen
4. carry on as friends...but secretly enjoying the memory or sharing subtle jokes about it
this can at most be repeated about once a year...
not immature...good question
peace
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