Please forgive me for poking my nose in *yet further*....
But, if she's going to use a second language to complain at you, I wouldn't spend too much time trying to look into it. Its hard enough when girlfriends get mad in your own language, right?
What I'm saying is, as MMM eluded to, I think the answer is in discussing things in English. I commend your effort in trying to translate it though, I've known blokes who'd give up well before that
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