[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by JoshAussie

But this is the problem. - On Salvanas' Point. You can be mature (For your age) at 12 or whatever. But your never going to be as mature as someone that is actually older and has more life experience. (Well generally anyway)

Hmm - this is kind of hard to word. Sometimes i have trouble getting my thoughts/point accross in writing.

So i gotta try break it down.

'are you sure your ready? do you know the risks? are you using protection?'

If they answer "Yes" Does this then mean that they are ready? Are they mature enough to answer this question.. maturely?

So what Salvanas' said. They even might believe themselves to be ready. But just because they say they are ready and believe that they are ready. Doesnt actually mean they are mature enough for sex. They can think they are and tell you they are, but id place my bet on "No" theyre not actually ready.

And its basically impossible to tell. a 12 year old is a 12 year old. It would be almost impossible to get a 100% accurate super mature answer.

When I was writing my last post, this is exactly what I was trying to say. It is hard to word, so I don't think it's you. It's a hard thing to explain, thanks for making it more simpler.
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And i dissagree with the relationship bit. 12 year olds cant have relationships deep enough (Without theyre being some sort of mental dillusions that are probably going to badly effect theyre personality later) to consider having sex.

"Weve been going out since we were 6, remember we met playing kiss chasy? we were such hussies back then. But i think weve been going out long enough and matured enough now to have sex. i mean come on, were 12. we arent getting any younger!"

Imagine that in a voice that hasnt even broken. Just doesnt "sit right" with me.

I could not agree with this more.