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Originally Posted by Koir
Ignore Keaton, he's trying (and failing) to be amusing.
Seems to me he really enjoys you as a travelling companion, but not much beyond that...at the moment. As always, I advise more observation and a buildup of experience in picking up the little signs he may be showing either consciously or subconsciously.
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Thanks Koir, I'm trying to observe, but failed to differentiate whether they mean anything or not. Sometimes my friends said that it could be myself who are a bit dumb though.
I mean, would any guy (especially Japanese guys) help a girl who is just a normal friend to bring towel, get hair dryer, carry bags all the way while travelling together and bring you to all the places you like to go to even if he might need to sacrifice some of the places that he planned to go to? To me, it may be yes or may be no... So I really can't pick up whether those signs means anything or not.
While I visit Japan, he tried to meet me up whenever possible and the same thing when he came to Shanghai. But still, he says nothing which can confirm my guess. When we travel together, sometimes we could look like couples in the others' eyes. But, I'm not sure of that myself. Basically, we never even hold hands before. So, maybe we are just some what a little more than just normal friend? Good friend?
I really don't know about it unless he says it out. Although sometimes I thought he's trying to say something, but that could just be my own assumption.
Many people asked me to just ask him directly, but I'm just afraid to do so.
Knowing each other for a year, but staying in different countries though meeting up several times during this year. I'm not sure it's long enough or still too short. I feel like it's so long already...