Yeah, Naoko, you're absolutely right. I am really confused because I don't know all he did is it just out of politeness, due to his upbringing or what?
And by the way, I do have more male friends. But they are so different from him and everyone does have different point of view and I truly believe background does have major impact of how everyone thinks. So, I'm still not sure about him though I had so many male friends
If it's a yes, maybe I can further communicate and get to understand his thoughts more. But if it's a no, I'm afraid to loose a friend. He's a nice guy and I truly treasure him even if it's as a friend. That's why really I'm afraid to ask.