[Arikado]

Marriage doesn't constitute true love. I see too many kids these days whose parents are divorced because the parents made the wrong, ill-judged decision to marry each other and have children. Or they made that decision over some stupid reason, thinking it was the only option to get themselves out of whatever mess they were in. Marriage does not magically solve problems. I know this from family experience, so don't think I don't know what I'm talking about.
Just because you think you love somebody a lot, it doesn't mean you're ready for marriage, and it doesn't mean that you'll be any happier.

Now don't go thinking that I don't like the idea of marriage. I think marriage is the ultimate step in life and is a great thing for two people who truly love each other, no matter race, sex, or age, to find solace and to spend the rest of their lives together. It's a beautiful thing. But don't take advantage of it.

As for multiple relationships at the same time: If you're a player, fine, go for it. I'm not going to say anything against it because everyone has their opinion of their idea lifestyle and nothing I say is gonna change that anyway. But personally, I don't agree with it. I think if I knew that my girlfriend was hitting on other guys, or was in other relationships, I'd be OUT in the blink of an eye. It's just lack of respect is all it is.