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Originally Posted by KUNIO
I try man, I really do, it is just hard... my brain is just not capable of doing so.
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Well for one thing : You are way too negative!
That is what drives people away.
I know because that always makes me uncomfortable
whenever the people I am with have nothing positive
or interesting to say or are just hating on themselves.
I am not really sure of good advice that works for this,
but honestly you have to start (step-by-step) on
appreciating yourself and building confidence, and trust
me, if you have no hope in yourself that you will ever
be able to do this, it'll never happen. You NEED to take
it slowly and it WILL happen, it will just take some time.
But if you really really really want to help yourself, you
have to try and take those risks more than usual.
A small step could include smiling at someone you usually
wouldn't smile at.
Another thing : Normal? Ha. Trust me, there are tons of
people you would think are "normal" but really aren't.
People just don't open themselves up to who they really
are. But believe me,
they're there.