@ sinestra: apology accepted
well i hope that couples that stay together through hard financial times will actually be together
i know a couple right now that should probably be divorcing (before one goes homicidal on the other) but they don't because of finances
it's a sad reason to stay together (and probably not what marriage is about) but as you've said sinestra it could be a blessing in disguise. what's that saying "a family that cries together, stays together" (yeah i'm not sure about that saying but it was something along those lines lol...bad memory sorry)