[ThirdSight]

1. That sucks. I have a great deal of friends who are girls, and they're better to talk to than guys. Talk about being behind enemy lines, I get tons of information on women that way. Skadoosh.

2. It's not a sin, so don't pin yourself to a cross for, gasp, thinking about wanting to try to make a move on her. It shows you actually like the girl, which means something.

If you're not going to try to get anywhere with it, then I'd suggest moving on. Best way is to find out, someway, if she actually digs the guy she's with. Sounds crazy I know, but you'd be surprised at how many people will stay with someone they don't like, just because they're afraid of being alone. Of course, if she's liking the guy she's already with and you're trying to "convince" her otherwise, then that's kinda' a dick move. But that's just my take; I'm not well versed in these kinds of things.