[Keaton421]

Originally Posted by MMM

You are saying it wouldn't be chivalrous to make a move on another guy's girl. Here is my take.

Dating is the process you go through in order to find yourself and then find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Once you find that person, you get married. Once the ring is on the finger, all other courters should back off.

But until then, all bets are off. If the man the woman is with now is the right man for her, then Zed is no threat to that. BUT, if the man the woman is with ISN'T right for her, but no other man approaches her because of chivalry, then she will be stuck with someone who isn't her true match.

I completely, 100% agree. We're made to compete for mates - a ring says the game's been won. And if they're 28 and together for at least a year and still not even engaged, I don't think they're that serious. If she's not that into her boyfriend, she'll move along. If her boyfriend's not ready to fight for her honor, he should be prepared to lose her. It's a fun challenge for both sides, don't you think? But if she says advances are upsetting her, it's time to quit.

Seriously guys, when was the last time you met a dateable girl that was single?