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Originally Posted by MMM
But until then, all bets are off. If the man the woman is with now is the right man for her, then Zed is no threat to that. BUT, if the man the woman is with ISN'T right for her, but no other man approaches her because of chivalry, then she will be stuck with someone who isn't her true match.
What if Zed and she are perfect for each other, but he never finds out because he is too afraid of stepping on a stranger's toes? If she does agree to go out with him that means she questions the relationship she is in now, and doesn't SHE have the right to explore the possibilities available to her?
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Even if two people are perfect for each other, their relationship could easily be broken when an outsider interferes, don't forget this how the art of "womanizing" (I hope this is the correct word I'm using) was invented. There are lots of guys who just won't stop until they have their hands on the "forbidden fruit". And there's nothing chivalrous in that.
In my opinion if a girl is in a serious relationship in which it is seen that she's happy, then others should back off no matter has she a ring on her finger
or not.
But I can't say the same thing in ZedKnightlys situation because I don't the whole story between him, her, and her boyfriend who ever he is.