[ZedKnightly]

how do you make friends with japanese people?
please state if u are working or not.

how do u break the barrier between social life and work life, in order to get close to them?

and how do you enjoy your free time when u have no friends here?

in short how do u live?

ill go first.
i cant exactly say im alone as i went here with a friend, we work in the same company. but of course our rooms are different.

and even though i have a friend here, since shes a girl with a bf in the philippines, i cant exactly take her wth me to go to mall together or tour together.

so i always end up not going anywhere on my free time since i have no one to go with (guys, or girlfriend)

in the office its hard to befriend them since theres this huge barrier between work n social life.

the thing with japanese people is, they tend to make their loyal/true friends during their school days. when they work, they have this different persona in the office and its like if ur their officemate, thats all u can ever become. nothing personal there.

so anyways back to my story.

so im alone here, quite sad actually. ive been here 1.5 years and situation hasnt changed.

how bout u guys how do u do it?