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Why do people post in these threads if they arent even close to what the OP is searching for/not going to help in the slightest? You wouldnt message a lesbian on a dating website if you were a guy looking for guys, would you? Don't answer that..

@Oglethorpe1983 maybe you said something that was offensive? Japanese language+culture has so many intricate little bits to it, its very easy for an outsider to offend someone without even knowing it. Maybe you could write your last letter to her here and see if JF's experts can pick up on anything? Remove all personal details etc first..