[Saffron]

Shadow: No disrespect but you have no idea how difficult it is for a shy person to make decent friends. It took me 3 years just to find one decent friend. There are a lot of sites on the internet where you have to put an add up to get people to contact you. So I do not see the harm in people putting up a post here. You might have made a lot of friends here without making a post but that is probably because you are outgoing. Quite a lot of people are shy so they do not find it so easy.